Meeting new singles for brief hookups may seem a common thing, but many guys are still making mistakes in the process. Knowing these basic nuances will save you time and money.
Cheap pubs round the corner
Like any other way, this one has pros and cons. On a positive note, you won’t get tricked by escort personals so typical for higher rated elite pubs. All single women you may see there, are real.
On another hand, if you always go to the next-building bar, there’s a risk of constant meetings with the same neighbours or ex-schoolmates. They may be gossiping about you and spoiling your pickup.
Truth is in a middle, so choose well-known simple pubs that aren’t exactly in your area. It’ll bring you a lot of easy one-night-stands and add to the list where to pick up.
Nightclubs known for hookups
Mainstream culture has followed the gay scene and provided the possibility to get laid right at the club. There are benefits and pitfalls in that though. Make sure you are making the best out of your nightclub hookups.
First, who does fall for getting laid on a disco? Only really drunk girls and women with low self esteem. Otherwise, they might be totally crazy about you. So if you’re sure of your charm, go ahead.
Secondly, the exact spot where to pick up also matters. If public toilets are your turn-on and your hookup doesn’t mind, just do it. If you feel more refined, go to the clubs and pubs with private rooms.
Cheap escort sites
Budget-friendly hookup aggregators like Listcrawler, or even top level local hookup sites, surely bring the quickest one-night-stands. But there’s no alluring pickup, hot girls are financially motivated.
Instead, experts recommend adult dating sites and kinky niche apps where single women are sincerely horny and keen on meeting instantly. All you need is to flatter them a bit, and name the meeting place.
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