What do we all want when horny? Meet up for sex without any complications, unnecessary courtship, explanations, or even foreplay. Casual sex experts are sharing their secrets in this regard.
Tell naughty compliments
Nowadays when any flattering can be perceived as sexual harrasment, people should be careful with what they say. Still, tell some humorous naughty compliments that can be perceived lightly.
You’ll then gain the reputation of a very straightforward and playful guy, not idealistic one who wastes his and others time. Psychologically, girls around will be ready to get intimate with you.
Be tidy and well-groomed
No one wants a nerd with greasy hair, doesn’t matter how hard he tries to sound seductive. As more you focus on a flesh aspect, as more others perceive you as a desirable sex object.
Take long showers, go to sauna regularly, use cosmetic remedies for men and the highest rated colognes. You’ll look differently, your skin will shy healthily, and there will be a special aura.
Well-groomed men are no less hot than women. It is wrongly considered non masculine to dedicate time to the physical appearance, also, there’s a stereotype only gigolos do so.
If you want to meet up for sex, do not give a heck about such patterns. If it’s effective and works well, you should do that. Fresh clothes, and neat hairstyle are playing a big role too.
No first date
Break the rules of the first hookup date and do not take your casual partner to eat or dance before sex. Go to the supermarket together aiming to eat in a rented apartment or your buddy’s place.
Buy solely the products that raise the potency, so that a girl is aware what exactly is planned for the evening. Let it be seafood, pine nuts, and strawberries, or other food you consider aphrodisiac.
Present sexy souvenirs
If a girl is potentially your friend with benefits, it really helps to prepare her by presenting some funny stuff with a sexual contest. It can be a sexy apron, a dick shaped magnet for the fridge, etc.
Those little hints may affect her thoughts about you and give them the right direction. Just make sure she has no stable boyfriend or strict parents. If so, use other ideas and do not present anything.
Play breakup card
Each girl, even the most selfish one, has a motherly instinct. Even if not, they replace it with the predatory instinct. Once they get to know you’re free and single, they want to grab you and own you.
It’s ok then, it least for one night or for a few hours. Look as seductive as we described above, and add some sad story about your recent breakup. Share it in private chats with younger singles.
It also works to tell them you need to get wild and kinky, in order to wash all sorrows away and forget your ex. You won’t believe how enthusiastic young women get to help with such things.
Relationship psychologist, sexology therapist, world traveller, author of 16 brochures on adult dating tendencies in 2020s. Specialist on niche subcultures chosen by the youth, personal trainer for self-esteem increase and safe sex tourism.