Wanting nsa sex is so natural for all singles. Psychologists recommend to just accept that, and make an effective search without any embarassment. Some of your buddies may want the same.
Feel at ease with yourself and your real wishes. That’s the main factor leading you to find sex friend. You just know no one can resist your sexiness, and it will be happening in real life.
Flirt on a daily basis
Make a flirtatious conversation your usual style. Joke softly and positively, compliment your female friends everyday. Then they will get used to this manner of yours and perceive you more erotically.
Although they will know it’s your common attitude, it will be easier to turn it to the real thing and initiate a hookup. Daily buddies have all chances to find sex friend with benefits.
Pickup your room mate
It’s way too convenient to have casual sex with one’s roommate to ignore this opportunity. But you should do things right. Do not start a hookup with smb who has a boyfriend already.
They may accept such casual cheating but similar situations often lead to problems later on. Choose a single person or a thot, then your sex experiments will be really liberate and hot.
Some guys make the step forward and try to find roommates with benefits in advance. For instance, while traveling or going abroad for seasoned work. Many girls accept this kind of adventure.
After all, it’s cheaper to share the food, the rent cost, pay all bills together, hang out together safely, along with such a pleasant bonus as getting laid. It has nothing to do with the committment though.
Catch her after breakup
Female friends may remain just buddies until they breakup with their bf. It’s always the right moment to hook up with them by expressing compassion and support. They need a shoulder and other bodyparts.
The alcohol breaks the barrier and helps things happen. Sometimes right after their loss, and sometimes in a few weeks when they get ready to a new lover. A friend with benefits is the best solution.
Even if you prefer sober hookups, it is going to take place easily anyway. Especially if you prepared the soil and expressed yourself as a sex positive person before, and this is how you are perceived.
Male friends tips
Who knows better about skilled and reliable thots than other guys? Ask them directly who they recommend in your common circle. Someone to get laid with, having no complications or stress.
Usually, young men share casual lovers without any jealousy or judgment. It’s a nsa sex, so there are no obstacles or doubts that could stop you from doing that. Enjoy the girls your friends named.
Certain nuances are possible though. Some guys can do that with the third thoughts, for example, if they want to spoil a girl’s reputation or mislead you. Check whether different opinions match.
Having a well-known thot as your fwb is nothing wrong. She may prefer you to anyone else, if you treat her as a valued personality not just a sex object. So, try various options and pick what suits you.
Relationship psychologist, sexology therapist, world traveller, author of 16 brochures on adult dating tendencies in 2020s. Specialist on niche subcultures chosen by the youth, personal trainer for self-esteem increase and safe sex tourism.